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Are We Chasing Thrills and Mistaking It for Love and Romance?

NASSAU, BAHAMAS – Senior Pastor C. Clifford Smith, a certified marriage and family life therapist says the act of romance is not fading as many would suggest.

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2 months ago

February 14, 2025

Denielle Miller

NASSAU, BAHAMAS – It’s Valentine’s Day and that means the topic of love and romance are taking social media by storm.

Senior Pastor C. Clifford Smith, a certified marriage and family life therapist says the act of romance is not fading as many would suggest.

But he says in today’s modern society, both men and women must understand what true romance is.

When it comes to men, he says most must be reprogrammed from the hunting strategy.

Yet romance is an affinity that’s based on love, not infatuation.

As for women, it goes beyond the walls of the bedroom.

Romantic expressions can be packaged in many ways, but there’s only one way to interpret your person’s love language.

Pastor Smith says, “Only when you marry your friend you’re going to see a real romance I always tell people a lot of times we marry because I was attracted to you or I found you attractive that doesn’t necessarily mean though we were friends and I always tell young people or people not so young if you’re going to marry someone don’t just marry someone for good looks or money or this or that marry because you married your friend.”